We need to grasp both Who He is in us and who we are in Him and allow the truths to affect our thoughts and actions. Seeking His inheritance, and His calling, we will find ours.
I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened so you may know what is the hope of His calling, what are the glorious riches of His inheritance among the saints, and what is the immeasurable greatness of His power to us who believe, according to the working of His vast strength.
(Ephesians 1:18-19 Holman Christian Standard Bible ®©)
The more time we spend praying (including listening) over our days and our projects, the more those who watch us will wonder about how unusually lucky we are. Then one of our prayers can be that we would be able to help them see the Kingdom by leading them to be born of Yahweh. Seeing the Kingdom will help them grasp the difference between luck and favor.